Families Come to Us with Problems and Leave with Solutions.
1. Problem: “How can I stop the name-calling and quarreling? I’ve tried everything!”
Solution: I’ll share with you 3 simple sentences that put an end to name-calling, hitting, and quarreling. (These are the same three sentences I told the mother with quarreling children who later called and reported instant results)
2. Problem: “I want to be closer to my teenager but he/she doesn’t open up to me.”
Solution: I’ll give you 7 easy things you can do to keep you close to your teenager. They’re almost magical in their effectiveness!
3. Problem: “I don’t know how to stop the WHINING and I hate whining!”
Solution: I’ll tell you how to eliminate whining and negative talk in your home. Just imagine…no more whining or rude tones of voice! (I’ve had 100% success with this!)
4. Problem: “We have a real problem with anger. What should I do?”
Solution: I’ll share with you the 3 steps you can use to quickly defuse any angry person.
5. Problem: “I don’t think I’m saying the right things when my children disobey.”
Solution: I’ll give you exactly the right things to say immediately after your children disobey. (This strategy can create instant changes!)
6. Problem: “We don’t always communicate well with each other and then problems just get worse.”
Solution: I love teaching the 5 Keys to Great Communication. (You’ll learn the exact words that turn conflict into peace.)
7. Problem: “My children always cry or get angry when they’re disciplined, so I don’t think they’re learning much. What should I do?”
Solution: I’ll show you 3 easy, quick ways to make discipline a positive experience. (Hey, this really works – ask my 8 children!)
8. Problem: “My children are selfish. How can I help them be more appreciative and unselfish?”
Solution: I will show you how to teach your children to look through “windows” – seeing the needs of others – instead of looking through “mirrors” seeing only their own needs and desires. (This strategy teaches how to take the “self” out of self-esteem and create compassionate, confident, appreciative children.)
9. Problem: “After family conflicts I think about what I should have done better. How can I PREVENT problems and conflict?”
Solution: I’ll show you how to stop the hurt BEFORE it happens. (Preventing problems is one of my favorite things to do!)
10. Problem: “I love my spouse but I’m disappointed with our relationship. Can you help?”
Solution: I’m excited to share with you the 3 things you can do to insure a healthier marriage than you’ve ever had. (You’ll be amazed at how using these simple strategies will cause you and your partner to cherish each other!)
Yes, there ARE solutions that can help you create a happier, healthier family. I can’t wait to share them with you!
Please know that no matter how bad family situations are, I’ve shown parents across the world how to overcome their family challenges and repair damaged relationships so they can build strong, successful families.
I’d love to connect with you! Simply click below to learn more – or leave me a comment and I’ll get back to you with solutions for your family
Ambassador Mohktar Lamani, United Nations
“Paula Fellingham has the wonderful ability of empowering people to improve their lives and their relationships. As she strengthens individuals and families, she is strengthening communities and nations by providing solutions that work.”
Pavel Suian, Ambassador from Romania:
“Paula, your Solutions For Families program has the power to touch countless lives for good. The families who use your valuable information and parenting advice will be forever grateful to you. My best wishes for success in the United States and worldwide as you endeavor to strengthen families.”
Jill Donnelly, President of World Movement of Mothers, Paris, France:
“Paula, you’re doing wonderful things to strengthen families in America. The good work you’re doing is needed now, more than ever before in the history of our world, as we sadly watch the disintegration of the family. It’s happening in every nation on the face of the earth. If only we had more women like you to lead families toward a brighter tomorrow!”
Roger Merrill, co-author of First Things First (re: Solutions For Families)
“Finally, here is a real-world, kitchen-table resource for building strong and happy family relationships.”
Dr. Michele Borba, author of Parents Do Make a Difference, How to Raise Kids with Solid Character, Strong Minds and Caring Hearts:
“I love Solutions For Families! I think it’s timely, relevant, and right on the mark. Paula Fellingham offers sensible, wise, research-based advice on how we can build stronger, kinder families during these turbulent times. It’s a powerful guide filled with wonderful, practical ideas and real solutions that will make a significant difference in parenting. I highly recommend it.”
Marcia Ford, Former President, American Mothers, Inc:
“As Washington State Young Mother of the Year, you made a huge difference in your community and in the state. Thank you for teaching principles that have changed lives and dramatically affected families for good. When parents implement your strategies in their homes, the positive effects are felt for generations to come.”
Angela Huntington, Seminar Attendee and Solutions For Families Radio Show Listener:
” I appreciate all your hard work to strengthen families through healing and strengthening relationships. Two of your teachings have particularly helped our family. The first is the principle of kindness in the home. I don’t know how I managed to overlook that quality in my own family. It’s easy to be kind to neighbors, associates, even strangers – yet so hard to practice in the home. It is easy to get caught up in running the household like a drill sergeant and forget that these children are future leaders and mothers and fathers themselves. Since reading your lessons on kindness and how to practice it through thoughts, words, tone of voice and actions, I’ve noticed substantial improvement in the atmosphere of our home. There is more peace, more obedience and more respect for one another.
The second of your teachings that significantly impacted our family is limiting television watching. After you spoke of how children who watch much less TV have higher grades in school, I knew I had to give it a try. We turned the TV off for a week and it was amazing what happened! We actually talked to each other and the children got along better with less fighting and back-talk. We even discovered a benefit we could have never anticipated – our children were more obedient! Thank you for the idea! I surely appreciate your excellent work to strengthen families.”
Thomas Chock, Seminar Attendee:
“Thank you for your great ideas about parenting. I’ve already used your principles with my son and I was successful! It felt great!”
Sharon Merritt, Seminar Attendee:
“Thank you so much for the wonderful presentations! My husband and I both enjoyed them so much and learned much that we wish we had known many years ago when our children were younger. Your topics were so well organized and well presented, with clarity and no bunk or useless rhetoric. Please tell me where I can get your videos and anything else you produce!”
Doreen Kitchens, Parenting Teleseminar Attendee:
“Thursday evening I listened to your teleseminar. I immediately put your advice into action with my three little boys. It has turned our whole relationship around!”
Stephanie Atwood, Seminar Attendee:
” Not only did I love your words and wisdom but I truly felt some of your words were directed right to me. “You inspired me to be better and to try harder to be a better person. Thanks. I am also looking forward to your new book and can’t wait to be able to read it.”
Penelope Wing, University Student:
“I really like how we could all tell that Mrs. Fellingham really knows her stuff and feels so passionate about the importance of families. I loved the stories she told. Thank you Mrs. Fellingham! You’ve taught me so much!”
Vanessa Aneso, University Student:
“I love the way Mrs. Fellingham teaches! Her enthusiasm, smile, love and sincerity are contagious. She makes me so excited to learn more. She makes me want to be an awesome mother.”
Rebecca Soderquist, University Student:
“I loved Paula Fellingham’s enthusiasm, personality, insights and experience. I felt like I was drinking from a firehose in class – she has so much information. It was marvelous. I loved her energy!”
Jon Wadley, University Student:
“I thoroughly enjoyed each lesson that you taught. I felt like a sponge absorbing everything. Everyday I went home and shared the lessons with my wife and they have been empowering as we talk about what kind of parents we are going to be.”
Kristy Yamaguchi, University Student:
“The knowledge Mrs. Fellingham has about the family is great.”
Lora Vail, University Student:
“The depth of the subject matter – strengthening families – seems to be easier to understand than before because of Mrs. Fellingham. I love how she personalizes the information. She puts it in a context that is easy to understand. She is, without a doubt, the happiest and most positive-thinking person I know. I love the faith she has in each of her students. She knows that we will take the information she has given us to make our families better.”
Lonnie McLaughlin, University Student:
” In all honesty, “Paula Fellingham is the best teacher I’ve had in my seven semesters at this university. Her enthusiasm for family and motherhood radiates in every fiber of her being. It is because she has been diligent in her family that she is a success in teaching. Thank you for what you have done for all of us.”
Cynthia Kennemer, Visalia, CA
Since meeting Paula I have grown in confidence and self-esteem in addition to learning how to be a highly successful businesswoman AND a better wife and mother! I know now that there are no limits to my success.
Roslyn Reynolds, Salt Lake City, UT:
Thank you for a truly life-changing weekend. I learned how to run my home business more effectively; ways to save incredible amounts in taxes; how to give great presentations; and, most important to me, specific ways to improve the relationships in my life.
Paula, you have such a gift to reach out to the audience and draw each of us into your message! I felt – and I believe each attendee also did – that you knew my heart and were specifically addressing my personal needs as you spoke!
Thank you for an uplifting, inspiring event! I will live my life differently from this day forward!
Tiffany Berg – Salt Lake City, Utah
It’s true that today’s women are looking for success in their businesses, but women are ALSO looking for success principles that not only ignite their wealth, but also their marriages, their parenting and their global involvement. Dr. Paula Fellingham teaches the priceless tools that transform your vision on all of these!
I have never heard anyone as good as Paula Fellingham, and I’ve heard the best in the business! Nor have I attended a seminar that gave me the tools to be successful in business and in my personal life! No woman can afford to miss Paula’s trainings – because winning at business can’t mean losing at home!”
Neil and Kathryn Anderson, Solutions For Families Radio Show Listeners:
“We have been listening to your “Solutions For Families” Radio Show and enjoy your insight and philosophy. We are very impressed. We’d love to have all of the information we can get from you.”
Steve Howes, Parenting Seminar Attendee:
“I want to thank you so much for your work with families. I came away moved, uplifted and determined to make changes in my life. Thank you for showing the way and helping me to be motivated to move forward.”
Calvin W. Harper, Co-Founder of StreetSmart, a National Award-Winning Video Series:
“Solutions For Families offers real answers to the problems involved in teaching children respect, responsibility, accountability and honor. If you have children, you need this!”